“She Helped My Ex-Wife, But Won’t Assist My Current Wife,” Complains Son About His Mother

As Jacob and Violet’s relationship grew more serious, Jacob’s financial obligations to Ellie became a contentious issue. He was falling behind on alimony and child support, claiming that his new life with Violet was financially demanding. Violet, on her part, didn’t hide her disdain for Ellie, believing that Ellie was living off Jacob’s hard-earned money.

Jacob had always been his mother Anna’s pride and joy. Growing up in a small town in Ohio, he was the kind of son who seemed to have it all figured out. Smart, charming, and ambitious, he married his high school sweetheart, Ellie, right after they both graduated from college. Anna adored Ellie, seeing her as the daughter she never had. When Jacob and Ellie’s marriage began to crumble, Anna was their steadfast supporter, trying her best to help them navigate the rough waters.

Unfortunately, despite all efforts, Jacob and Ellie divorced after eight years of marriage. The split was messy, filled with bitter disputes over finances and mutual accusations. Ellie, who had been a stay-at-home mom to their two children, found herself struggling financially in the aftermath. Anna, ever the protective mother, stepped in to help Ellie with her expenses and even took care of the grandchildren whenever needed.

Two years later, Jacob met Violet, a vibrant young woman who worked in digital marketing. They fell in love quickly, and within months, Jacob was talking about marriage again. However, his relationship with Violet was different. Where Ellie was gentle and accommodating, Violet was fiery and independent. Anna tried to warm up to Violet, but something about her rubbed Anna the wrong way.

One evening, Jacob approached Anna with a request, or rather a plea. He and Violet were facing eviction from their apartment due to unpaid rent and other accumulating debts. Jacob asked if they could move in with Anna temporarily. Anna, feeling a mix of disappointment and concern, hesitated. Her home had always been open to Jacob, but this time, it was different. Violet had never made an effort to connect with Anna, often dismissing her advice and even criticizing her for supporting Ellie.

Anna’s refusal shocked Jacob. He couldn’t understand why his mother, who had always been his safety net, was suddenly turning him away. “You helped Ellie all those times, why can’t you help us now?” Jacob argued bitterly.

Anna, with a heavy heart, tried to explain that helping him meant also supporting his responsibilities, which included his obligations to Ellie and their children. She told him that if he had been more responsible with his finances and fair to Ellie, he wouldn’t be in this predicament. But Jacob was too upset to see reason.

The argument escalated, and words were exchanged that couldn’t be taken back. Violet, feeling insulted and unwelcome, declared that she never wanted to see Anna again. Jacob, torn between his mother and his partner, made the painful decision to side with Violet.

Months passed with no communication. Anna heard from mutual friends that Jacob and Violet had moved to a cheaper city and were trying to make ends meet. Anna continued to support Ellie and her grandchildren, her heart aching for her son but firm in her belief that she had made the right, though tough, decision.

The rift between Jacob and Anna never mended. Jacob, embittered by the turn of events, kept his distance, and Anna, while always hoping for reconciliation, respected his choice. In the end, the family that once was close-knit and loving remained fractured, a testament to the complex dynamics of love, support, and responsibility.