My daughter, Emily, is over thirty but still lives with the recklessness and dreams of a teenager, and as her mother, I am exhausted waiting for her to find her footing. In this story, I recount a particularly emotional afternoon at my old workplace, where the frustration and pain of motherhood spilled out amid gossip and tea. The experience forces me to confront not just my daughter’s choices, but my own expectations and fears, and wonder about the true nature of adulthood.