After moving my mother from her small town to the city to help with my kids, I expected her to devote herself to our family. But when she claimed Wednesdays for her own yoga class, I felt betrayed and overwhelmed. Through conflict and difficult conversations, I learned the meaning of boundaries, self-care, and what it really means to support one another.
After coming home from the hospital with my first baby, I struggled alone while my mother—eager to help, but only on her terms—walked out after my honest request for help. My husband Michael, absorbed in work and expectations, left me feeling invisible and overwhelmed as I navigated new motherhood. This is the story of how family support can sometimes hurt more than it helps, and how I found my voice in the chaos.
I recently made the decision to bring my elderly mother to live with me, but I’m finding it more challenging than I anticipated. I’m reaching out to this community for advice and support.
