Seeking Advice: Family Ties vs. Financial Priorities

Dear Society Members,

I hope this message finds you well. My name is Caroline, and I am currently facing a challenging situation within my family that I hope you can help me navigate.

Recently, I’ve noticed that my mother and sister, Alexa, seem to prioritize financial matters over our family bonds. It has reached a point where every conversation revolves around money or financial support. Alexa has been particularly insistent on receiving help for various expenses, but I feel that our relationship has become purely transactional.

I love my family, but I am increasingly uncomfortable with this dynamic. It feels as though my value to them is measured only in terms of financial support. I am conflicted because while I want to be there for them, I also feel it’s important to protect my own emotional well-being.

I am reaching out to ask for your advice on how to handle this situation. How should I address my feelings with my mother and Alexa? Is there a way to restore our family relationships to be more about love and support rather than just financial assistance? I worry about causing a rift, but I also believe that boundaries are necessary.

Thank you for taking the time to read my letter. Any advice or similar experiences you could share would be greatly appreciated.

Warm regards,

Caroline