Seeking Advice: Mother-in-Law Brought Her Suitor to Our Shared Apartment

Dear Society Members,

I hope this message finds you well. My name is Nora, and I am currently facing a rather uncomfortable situation at home that I hope you can provide some guidance on.

Recently, my mother-in-law, Cora, who lives with my husband, Gary, and me, decided to bring her new admirer, Vincent, into our shared apartment. While we want to support her happiness, our apartment is quite small, and adding another person into our living arrangement has made the space feel even more cramped.

We have tried to discuss our concerns with Cora, explaining that the limited space makes it difficult for an additional person to stay over, especially on a regular basis. However, she seems quite taken with Vincent and insists on having him around frequently.

We are at a loss about how to handle this situation without causing a rift in the family. We value our relationship with Cora but also need to maintain our own comfort and privacy in our home. How can we address this issue delicately and effectively? Any advice from those who have experienced similar situations would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you for taking the time to read about my dilemma. I look forward to your insights and suggestions.

Warm regards,

Nora