Help! My Mom Controls My Life and I’m 30!

Hey everyone,

I really need some advice and support right now. My name is Logan, and I’m 30 years old. You’d think by this age I’d have my life together, but there’s one major problem: my mom. She controls everything I do, and it’s driving me crazy.

To give you some context, my mom has always been super involved in my life. When I was younger, it was kind of nice because she was always there for me. But now, it’s like I can’t make a single decision without her input. Whether it’s about my job, my friends, or even what I eat for dinner, she has to have a say in everything.

I don’t have my own life because everything revolves around what she wants. If I try to do something on my own or make a decision without consulting her, she gets really upset and makes me feel guilty. It’s like I’m stuck in this never-ending cycle of trying to please her while sacrificing my own happiness.

I’ve tried talking to her about it, but she just brushes it off and says she’s only trying to help. I know she means well, but I can’t keep living like this. I need to find a way to assert my independence without causing a huge family drama.

Has anyone else been in a similar situation? How did you handle it? Any tips on setting boundaries with a controlling parent? I’d really appreciate any advice you can give me.

Thanks in advance!

Logan