Help! My Daughter-in-Law Ruined My Relationship with My Son

Hey everyone,

I’m really struggling right now and could use some advice. My son, Joshua, and I used to be super close, but ever since he got married to Ellie, things have gone downhill. I feel like Ellie has completely ruined our relationship. Joshua doesn’t want anything to do with me anymore, and it breaks my heart.

I don’t know what I did wrong. I always tried to be supportive and welcoming to Ellie, but it seems like she has something against me. Whenever I try to reach out to Joshua, he either ignores me or gives me very short, cold responses. It’s like he’s a different person now, and I can’t help but think Ellie is influencing him.

I’ve tried talking to Joshua about it, but he just gets defensive and says I’m overreacting. I don’t want to lose my son, but I don’t know how to fix this. Should I confront Ellie directly? Or should I give Joshua some space and hope he comes around? I’m at a loss here and could really use some advice from anyone who has been through something similar.

Thanks in advance for your help.