Seeking Advice: Why Did My Mom Choose My Stepfather Over Me?

Hi everyone,

I’m reaching out because I recently uncovered a painful truth about my past, and I could really use some advice on how to process and move forward. My name is Ruby, and for many years, I struggled with the feeling that my mom chose my stepfather over me. This feeling has haunted me and affected my relationships and self-esteem.

A few years ago, I found out the real reason behind my mom’s decision. It turns out that my stepfather, Joshua, simply didn’t want to live with me. This revelation has been both a relief and a new source of pain. On one hand, it wasn’t entirely my mom’s choice, but on the other hand, it hurts to know that someone actively didn’t want me around.

I’m trying to understand my mom’s perspective and why she made the choices she did. I also want to find a way to heal from this and not let it define my future. Have any of you been through something similar? How did you cope with the feelings of rejection and betrayal? How can I rebuild my relationship with my mom, Aurora, and find peace with Joshua’s decision?

Any advice or personal experiences you can share would be greatly appreciated. Thank you for taking the time to read my story and for any support you can offer.

Warm regards,

Ruby