Seeking Advice: Navigating Friendship and Personal Questions

Dear Society Members,

I hope this message finds you well. I am writing to seek your advice on a personal matter that has been troubling me. Recently, I had a disagreement with my friend, Ruby, which has left me feeling quite unsettled.

Ruby and I have been friends for many years, and I have always valued her support and companionship. However, during a recent conversation, as I shared my considerations about possibly divorcing my husband, Ruby unexpectedly questioned how I planned to support myself financially after the divorce. Her question took me by surprise and felt rather intrusive, especially given the sensitive nature of the topic.

I can’t help but feel that Ruby’s question was not just out of concern but perhaps also stemmed from a place of jealousy. This has made me question the dynamics of our friendship and whether her intentions in our interactions are as genuine as I had believed.

I am at a crossroads and unsure how to approach this situation. Should I confront Ruby about how her question made me feel? Is there a way to address this issue without causing further conflict or should I reconsider the friendship altogether?

I would greatly appreciate any advice or perspectives you could share on how to handle this delicate situation.

Thank you for your time and understanding.

Warm regards,

Zoey