When You Give Everything: The Loneliness of a Mother Forgotten

When You Give Everything: The Loneliness of a Mother Forgotten

I spent my entire life devoted to my two daughters, sacrificing my own happiness, dreams, and comfort to give them everything I could. Now that they are grown and have families of their own, I find myself alone, waiting for a phone call that rarely comes, and wondering what I did wrong. Through heartbreak, reflection, and a desperate search for connection, I question if the love I gave was truly seen, or if I simply lost myself along the way.

The Empty Chair at My Birthday Table

The Empty Chair at My Birthday Table

On my 60th birthday, after giving my son and his wife our family home, I expected nothing more than their presence at my celebration. When they didn’t show up, the emptiness at the table forced me to confront decades of giving, expectation, and silent disappointments. My story is about family ties, sacrifice, and the painful realization that love and generosity do not always ensure gratitude or closeness.