Ever since elementary school, I dreaded dismissal time. The other girls had young, glamorous moms, but my mom looked much older, gray-haired and stooped. I remember the sting of classmates whispering, of being called out in the hallway—”Kathy, your grandma’s here!”—when it was really my mom. This is the story of how I wrestled with shame, family secrets, and ultimately found a deeper understanding of love.