From the moment my twin boys burst into the world, chaos followed. Every day, I fight to keep them safe, loved, and understood, even while the world judges me for their wildness. My daughter’s words, ‘There’s no one else who can handle them but you,’ echo in my heart as I question if I’m truly enough.
When my son, Vincent, was publicly shamed by his teachers and the video spread online, I was forced to confront the very system I had trusted to protect him. My journey from shock to outrage pushed me to fight for my child’s dignity and reevaluate what it means to be a parent in today’s world. This is the story of a father’s love in the face of humiliation, injustice, and the desperate need for change.
On a humid July afternoon, my family and I got caught in an unexpected viral moment when a street performer in Central Park called me out for letting my wife carry all our bags. What followed was a cascade of emotions—shame, defensiveness, then deep reflection—as our family and our marriage were thrust into the public eye. The experience forced me to confront my own blind spots as a husband, a father, and a partner, and sparked a conversation I never knew we needed.
Eleven-year-old Vincent, along with several other students, was publicly humiliated by school staff, and the distressing incident was shared online. This wasn’t the first time Vincent had faced troubling experiences at the school.
