My daughter, Emily, told me she didn’t want me at her wedding because I never got along with her fiancé, Brian. Our bond had always been strong, but somewhere along the way, our closeness became a wedge, and the man she loved became the reason I felt suddenly like the outsider. This is the story of how I lost my place in Emily’s life – and how I’m left wondering if loving your child fiercely can sometimes be the very thing that drives them away.