I'm Not Your Nanny—I'm Your Mother: A Grandmother's Cry for Respect in Suburban Ohio

I’m Not Your Nanny—I’m Your Mother: A Grandmother’s Cry for Respect in Suburban Ohio

My name is Linda Parker, and for the past six years, I’ve played the role of grandmother, mother, and, unwillingly, the family’s unsung nanny. As my daughter-in-law, Ashley, assumes I’ll always be there, I find my own needs invisible, my voice drowned out by family expectations. This is my story—a plea for empathy and recognition, not just from my family, but from anyone who’s ever felt unseen in the role of caregiver.

Not Your Maid: A Mother's Breaking Point

Not Your Maid: A Mother’s Breaking Point

I stormed out of my house, slamming the door behind me, after finally telling my husband I wasn’t his maid. My days blurred together in a haze of chores, childcare, and invisible labor that no one seemed to notice. Now, as I sit in my car, I wonder if I’m brave enough to demand more for myself and my daughter, or if it’s just easier to keep pretending this is all normal.