My name is Emily, and for twelve years I’ve been married to Josh, a man whose love for saving money has slowly squeezed the air out of our home. This is the story of how I struggled between clinging to the family we built and yearning for the dignity and independence I lost along the way. After years of penny-pinching arguments, heartbreak, and a desperate quest for freedom, I finally reached the moment where I had to ask myself: Is leaving the only way to remember who I am?