Seeking Advice: Family Neglect and Tough Decisions
I’m facing a challenging situation with my children who seem to have forgotten about me. I need advice on how to handle this and whether my ultimatum was too harsh.
I’m facing a challenging situation with my children who seem to have forgotten about me. I need advice on how to handle this and whether my ultimatum was too harsh.
Exhausted from handling everything alone, I’ve reached my limit with my adult children’s neglect. I’ve given them an ultimatum: either they start helping, or I will sell all my assets to fund my stay in a retirement home. After dedicating our lives to raising our son and daughter, my husband and I deserve better.
Once colleagues, Amanda and I shared many workdays until she retired, and I took over her role. She never held a grudge and even helped me settle into the new position. But when I learned about her solitary life, my heart ached for her, and I couldn’t help but feel she was partly to blame.