When Love Feels Conditional: A Parent’s Struggle Between Ultimatums and Unconditional Family Ties
One stormy night, I confronted my grown children about their absence from my life, desperate for connection and terrified of growing old alone. My inner turmoil led me to consider an ultimatum—should I threaten to change my will to force their attention, or let love unfold naturally? Now, I wrestle with guilt and longing, searching for understanding and advice from others who have faced this heartbreak.