My life changed the moment I realized I had no one but my 78-year-old grandmother to care for my son. As a single mom and nurse working long shifts, I wrestle with guilt, fear, and gratitude every day, while watching the woman who raised me take on more than she should. This is the story of our family’s struggle, the difficult decisions we’ve made, and the questions that haunt me as I try to hold us all together.
My name is Erin, and my story begins on a bitterly cold November morning when I overheard my mom say my son, Tyler, was nothing but a burden. I had just lost my job after maternity leave, and every day was a struggle to find work and a daycare spot in Chicago. Between desperate job hunts, family tensions, and mounting doubts, I started to wonder if I’d made a mistake bringing a child into this world.
My name is Victoria, and when my husband died suddenly, my world collapsed. Alone with three kids and no help from my own mother, I’ve been forced to make impossible choices just to keep food on the table. Every day is a fight between my pride, my exhaustion, and my desperate love for my children.
My husband had a severe case of pneumonia last winter, and his recovery was long and arduous. When he was finally discharged, the doctor advised that he needed ample rest and a stress-free environment to fully recuperate. We thought we had everything planned out, but then my mother-in-law changed her mind at the last minute, leaving us in a difficult situation.
