"Who Are You, Grandma? We Only Have One Who Sees Her Grandkids Every Other Day": She Didn't Even Bother to Show Up for Their Birthday

“Who Are You, Grandma? We Only Have One Who Sees Her Grandkids Every Other Day”: She Didn’t Even Bother to Show Up for Their Birthday

I need advice. How should I handle my mother-in-law? She hasn’t visited her grandkids in eight months. She doesn’t call or write, even though we live in the same city. We live very close to each other. Personally, I don’t need her to come over, but I’m deeply hurt by her attitude towards my children. Why is she ignoring them? It’s as if they’ve been erased from her life

"When My Husband Lost His Job, His Mother Refused to Help Us": Now Her Health Has Declined, and We're Funding Her Care

“When My Husband Lost His Job, His Mother Refused to Help Us”: Now Her Health Has Declined, and We’re Funding Her Care

Married for 15 years and parents to a lovely daughter, we’ve never been wealthy but managed to save a bit. Recently, life has taken a turn, and our savings are dwindling fast. Yet, we’re committed to doing everything we can, especially ensuring our daughter gets a good education. My mother-in-law, Anna, has fallen ill again, and despite past differences, we’re stepping up to cover her medical expenses.