“My Son is 35, Has His Own Family, Yet Still Asks Us for Money: I Don’t Know What to Do”
From a young age, they get used to having everything handed to them. But when it’s time to face the real world, a mountain of challenges appears on the horizon.
From a young age, they get used to having everything handed to them. But when it’s time to face the real world, a mountain of challenges appears on the horizon.
Until my son, Michael, turned 30, it was just the two of us. Occasionally, he would bring home girlfriends. A few times, it even seemed like marriage was on the horizon, but it always ended in a breakup. Michael was always searching for a serious and committed relationship. But none of these women believed in it. The last girlfriend bluntly stated that she had no intention of living with a mama’s boy. For me
I always knew she had her own way of thinking, but I never imagined she would make such a request. What happened? She asked for compensation for taking care of her granddaughter.
Despite her heartfelt requests, a mother finds herself repeatedly excluded from family vacations. Her attempts to build a better relationship with her children seem to go unnoticed.
Sometimes, change feels impossible. At 70 years old, I find myself in a deep depression because I never truly lived my own life.
Five years ago, my in-laws borrowed a significant amount of money from us, recounts 32-year-old Emily. At that time, it was a lot for us. It was money from my maternity leave benefits and our savings. The money was just sitting there. My in-laws urgently needed to fix something in their vacation cabin
My job rarely offers anything exciting. I sit in my office, analyze data all day, and then head home. Since most of my colleagues are women, I don’t even have anyone to grab a beer with on a Friday night. My friends are busy, and my wife has stopped spending time with me
Sometimes life takes unexpected turns. I married not out of love, but because I had to. Sarah and I met at a friend’s party, shared a few fleeting moments, and then went our separate ways. Months later, we discovered she was pregnant. Neither of us was thrilled about marriage, but our parents insisted.
Recently, my only daughter, Emily, expressed her disappointment in me for not being able to provide her with financial support. Her in-laws, on the other hand, are always there to help them out. But how can I, a retired school teacher, be compared to her husband’s wealthy parents? I had Emily later in life, at the age of 42, after years of trying with my late husband
If I hadn’t arrived in time, my daughter would have given birth at home because she was too busy cooking dinner for her husband instead of heading to the hospital. On the way to the maternity ward, she pleaded with me to take care of her husband daily. He should fend for himself! My daughter’s marriage has always seemed troubled to me. Her husband, John, behaves
My mother-in-law claims that ever since Jake married me, he’s become selfish and mean. But I strongly disagree with her.
Even my in-laws have condemned me, and my daughter-in-law shares the same opinion. Although we always got along well before. It so happened that my daughter found herself in a difficult situation.