I recently experienced this myself, and at first, I couldn’t understand what had gotten into my ex-mother-in-law. Maybe she had a change of heart or was seeking some kind of redemption.
For the past decade, my husband has never uttered a harsh word to me. Of course, we’ve had our share of problems, the biggest being our living situation. But nothing prepared me for what I discovered in my mother-in-law’s kitchen.
Before we met, my husband had a wife and two children. When his wife found out she was pregnant with twins, her world turned upside down.
In a previous post, I shared my confession about a nearly four-year relationship that didn’t end well. My partner, who frequently moved between his rented place and my home, was reluctant to settle down permanently and start a traditional family. He argued that he wasn’t ready
Out of compassion, I let my mother-in-law move into our home after her divorce left her homeless with her youngest son. Little did I know, this decision would turn our lives upside down.
I’m 35 years old and have been married for 10 years. I married my high school sweetheart, John. I always admired John when we were in school, but never imagined our life would turn out this way.
– She won’t even call him by his name, always referring to him as “your that guy…” – nothing else. No matter how many times I’ve asked her to treat him normally, she just won’t.
For any married woman, a weak husband can be the source of most of her sorrows and disappointments. It’s often said that a woman should feel a strong shoulder and support. If that’s missing, love, no matter how strong, will eventually fade. It’s especially hard to be close to a man who shows weakness towards his mother.
They lived a seemingly harmonious life with their two teenage children. Money was never an issue—John had started his own business, a successful car wash, while his wife worked as a nail technician. But beneath the surface, tensions simmered, and things took a turn for the worse.
Love can be transformative, but it can also come with unexpected challenges. I fell for a man with a past, believing we could overcome anything together. But sometimes, love isn’t enough.
Every time a relative has an issue, my partner is the one they call. It feels like there’s never any time left for our relationship.
We used to meet up regularly for coffee and catch up on life. But for the past six months, I hadn’t heard a word from her. “Busy, sorry. Let’s do it another time,” she would say.
