From my earliest memories, my mother’s obsession with saving money shaped every part of my childhood—her penny-pinching meant I never quite fit in and always felt like an outsider. As I grew older, the sacrifices she made for our future came to feel more like burdens I never asked for, leaving me with complicated feelings of love, resentment, and longing for understanding. This is my story of how frugality haunted me long after the bills were paid, and the questions I’m still asking myself today.