Help! My Husband Got Another Woman Pregnant

Hey everyone,

I really need some advice and support right now. Something happened today that has completely turned my world upside down. An older woman, let’s call her Victoria, came to my door and told me that her daughter, Hazel, is pregnant with my husband Eric’s baby. I feel like I’m living in a nightmare and I don’t know what to do next.

Eric and I have been married for 10 years, and I thought we had a solid relationship. Sure, we’ve had our ups and downs like any couple, but I never imagined he would cheat on me, let alone get someone else pregnant. I’m feeling so many emotions right now—anger, betrayal, sadness, confusion. I don’t even know where to start.

Victoria seemed genuinely concerned and wasn’t trying to be confrontational. She just wanted me to know the truth. I haven’t confronted Eric yet because I’m still trying to process everything. Part of me wants to scream at him and throw him out of the house, but another part of me wants to sit down and have a calm conversation to understand what the hell happened.

Has anyone else been through something like this? How did you handle it? Should I talk to Eric first or should I reach out to Hazel? I’m so lost and could really use some guidance on how to navigate this mess.

Thanks in advance for any advice you can offer.

Nora