Should Adult Kids Live Close to Their Parents?

Hey everyone,

I hope you’re all doing well! I need some advice and thought this would be the best place to get some honest opinions. So, here’s the deal: My mom recently told me, “Nie stajesz się młodsza, nie popełniaj moich błędów,” which basically means, “You’re not getting any younger, don’t make my mistakes.” It’s got me thinking about whether I should move closer to my parents or not.

A bit of background: I’m Aria, 28 years old, and currently living in a different city from my parents. My mom, Piper, is in her late 50s and has been hinting that she would love for me to be closer. She says it’s important for family to stick together, especially as we all get older. On the other hand, my dad, Gerald, is more laid-back and says I should do whatever makes me happy.

I’ve got a pretty good job here and a solid group of friends, including my besties Scott and Kyle. Moving back would mean starting over in some ways, but it would also mean being there for my parents as they age. Plus, I do miss them a lot sometimes.

So, what do you all think? Should adult kids live close to their parents? Have any of you been in a similar situation? How did you handle it? Any advice would be super appreciated!

Thanks a ton,

Aria