Need Advice: Husband Refuses to Help My Sister Unless I Agree

Hey everyone,

I really need some advice on a tough situation I’m dealing with right now. So, here’s the deal: my husband, Jack, has flat-out refused to give my sister, Aria, any financial help unless I agree to it. The thing is, this whole situation is bringing up some old wounds for me.

Years ago, I was publicly humiliated by Aria. It was one of those moments that you just can’t forget, no matter how much time has passed. I know people change and grow, but that memory still stings. Jack knows how much it affected me, and I think that’s why he’s taking such a hard stance on this.

Aria has been going through a rough patch lately and could really use some support. Part of me wants to help her out because she’s family, but another part of me is still hurt and angry about what happened. I feel like I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place.

Jack says he won’t budge unless I give the green light, but I’m torn. Should I let bygones be bygones and agree to help her? Or should I stand my ground and protect myself from getting hurt again?

What would you do if you were in my shoes? Any advice or similar experiences would be super helpful right now. Thanks in advance!