Help! Can’t Seem to Find the Right Guy

Hey everyone,

I really need some advice and thought I’d turn to you all for help. So, here’s the deal: I’ve been married twice, but both times it just didn’t work out. I always felt like something was missing. I believe that a man should love me deeply and treat me like a queen, you know, like carrying me on his hands (not literally, but you get the idea).

My first husband, Roger, was a great guy, but he was always so busy with work. I felt like I was always second to his job. We had some good times, but I just didn’t feel that deep connection I was looking for.

Then came Joshua. He was super sweet and attentive at first, but over time, he became really controlling. It felt like he wanted to change who I was, and I just couldn’t deal with that.

Now I’m single again and feeling pretty lost. My friends Eliana and Sadie keep telling me to take a break from dating and focus on myself for a while. But then there’s Riley, who thinks I should get back out there and keep looking for “the one.”

What do you guys think? Should I take a break and focus on myself, or should I keep searching for Mr. Right? Have any of you been in a similar situation? How did you handle it? Any advice would be super appreciated!

Thanks a ton!