Need Advice: Dealing with Ungrateful Daughter-in-Law

Hey everyone,

I really need some advice and maybe a bit of a reality check. So, here’s the deal: I recently spent two weeks taking care of my grandson, Jerry. My son Joshua and his wife Neveah had to go out of town for work, and I was more than happy to help out. I love Jerry to bits, and we had a great time together.

But here’s where things went south. When Neveah and Joshua came back, instead of getting a thank you, Neveah blew up at me! She said I have an “improper approach” to raising kids and that I was doing things all wrong. I was honestly shocked and hurt. I mean, I raised Joshua and his brother Larry just fine, didn’t I?

I tried to ask her what exactly she thought I did wrong, but she just kept saying that my methods are outdated and that I need to respect their parenting style. I get that every parent has their own way of doing things, but isn’t it a bit much to expect me to change everything I know about childcare?

I’m feeling really unappreciated and confused right now. Should I confront Neveah about how hurtful her comments were? Or should I just let it go and try to adapt to her parenting style for the sake of family peace? Any advice from you guys would be super helpful.

Thanks in advance!