“My Mom Chose a New Husband Over Her Grandkids. I Can’t Believe She Did This to Us”
Hazel sat on the porch, her eyes fixed on the horizon, but her mind was miles away. She couldn’t shake the feeling of betrayal that had settled deep in her chest. Her mother, Victoria, had always been the rock of the family, the one who held everything together. But now, it felt like that rock had crumbled into dust.
It all started a few months ago when Victoria announced she was getting married again. At 68, she had met Michael, a charming man who seemed to sweep her off her feet. Hazel had been happy for her mother at first. After all, everyone deserves a chance at happiness, no matter their age. But as time went on, it became clear that Michael was more than just a new husband; he was a new priority.
Hazel’s children, Bobby and Violet, adored their grandmother. Victoria had always been there for them, attending school plays, birthday parties, and even just regular Sunday dinners. But since Michael came into the picture, those moments became fewer and farther between.
“Mom, are you coming to Bobby’s soccer game this weekend?” Hazel had asked one evening over the phone.
“Oh, honey, I’d love to, but Michael and I have plans to go to the lake house,” Victoria replied, her voice tinged with excitement.
It wasn’t the first time Hazel had heard that excuse. The lake house had become a symbol of everything that was wrong. It was where Victoria and Michael spent most of their time, away from the family that once meant everything to her.
Hazel tried to be understanding. She really did. But it was hard not to feel abandoned. The final straw came when Victoria missed Violet’s school play. Violet had been practicing for months, and she was heartbroken when her grandmother didn’t show up.
“Why didn’t Grandma come?” Violet asked, her eyes welling up with tears.
“She had other plans,” Hazel said softly, trying to hide her own disappointment.
The truth was, Victoria had chosen to go on a weekend getaway with Michael instead. It felt like a slap in the face. Hazel couldn’t understand how her mother could so easily replace the family with a man she had known for less than a year.
One evening, Hazel decided to confront her mother. She drove to the lake house, her mind racing with thoughts of what she would say. When she arrived, she found Victoria and Michael sitting on the porch, laughing and sipping wine.
“Mom, we need to talk,” Hazel said, trying to keep her voice steady.
Victoria looked surprised but nodded. “Of course, dear. Let’s go inside.”
Once they were alone in the living room, Hazel let her emotions spill out. “I don’t understand how you can just abandon us like this. Bobby and Violet miss you. I miss you.”
Victoria sighed, her expression turning serious. “Hazel, I love you and the kids more than anything. But I’m also allowed to have my own life. Michael makes me happy.”
“But at what cost?” Hazel shot back. “You’re missing out on so much. The kids need you.”
“I need this,” Victoria said firmly. “I’ve spent my whole life taking care of everyone else. Now it’s my turn to be happy.”
Hazel felt a lump in her throat. She realized that nothing she said would change her mother’s mind. Victoria had made her choice, and it wasn’t them.
As Hazel drove home that night, she couldn’t help but feel a deep sense of loss. Her mother was still alive, but it felt like she had lost her anyway. The family gatherings became less frequent, and when they did happen, there was always an empty chair where Victoria used to sit.
In the end, Hazel learned to accept that some things were beyond her control. She focused on being there for Bobby and Violet, determined not to let them feel the same sense of abandonment she did. But the pain never fully went away. It lingered like a shadow, a constant reminder of what they had lost.