Seeking Advice: Estranged from My Son as I Approach My 70th Birthday

Dear Society Members,

My name is Anna, and I am reaching out to you as I find myself in a rather painful situation. As my 70th birthday draws near, instead of looking forward to celebrating this milestone, I am overwhelmed by a sense of loneliness. My son, Ethan, who has been my sole close family after the passing of my husband, has gradually stopped communicating with me. This change occurred after his marriage to Ariana, who, for reasons unknown to me, has made it clear that she prefers Ethan not to maintain contact with me.

The joy and laughter that used to fill my days when Ethan and I would chat about everything under the sun have been replaced by silence. This situation has left a void in my heart, and I struggle daily with the pain of this separation. I have tried reaching out to Ethan, sending him messages and calling him, but my attempts have either been ignored or briefly acknowledged without any warmth.

As I write this, I am seeking your advice and wisdom. How should I handle this situation? Is there a way to mend the relationship with my son without causing further conflict? I am at a loss and would greatly appreciate any guidance or similar experiences you could share that might help me navigate this challenging time in my life.

Thank you for taking the time to read my letter. I look forward to any suggestions you might have.

Warm regards,

Anna