Seeking Reconciliation Advice: Estranged from Mother

Dear Life Advice Society,

My name is Zoey, and I find myself in a difficult and emotionally draining situation. Three months ago, after a particularly painful argument, I made the decision to cut off all communication with my mother. I blocked her on all social media and even added her number to my phone’s blacklist. At the time, it felt like the only way to protect my mental health and peace of mind.

However, my husband, Eric, has been increasingly insistent that I should reconcile with her. He believes that no matter the differences, family should always find a way to come back together. His persistence on this matter is adding an extra layer of stress to our relationship.

I am torn because while I value his perspective and our relationship, the thought of reopening communication with my mother fills me with anxiety. The issues between us are deep-seated and complex, involving long-standing patterns of behavior that I find hurtful and damaging.

I am reaching out to this community for advice. How should I approach this situation? Is there a way to reconcile that protects my emotional well-being? Or should I stand firm in my decision for the sake of my own mental health, even if it means going against my husband’s wishes?

Thank you for any insights or experiences you can share.

Warm regards,

Zoey